Saturday, January 8, 2011

Elizabeth Edwards loses his battle with breast cancer

Elizabeth Edwards, wife of John Edwards, presidential candidate was diagnosed with cancer when her husband was the candidate for the Democrats in 2004 report. Elizabeth Edwards was many talk shows and wrote several books about his struggles as a woman with cancer and, later, as a woman betrayed by a man who describes himself as a faithful family man. She died on 7 December 2010.

When you are in the public boat, there is little hope of privacy. Your words and actions are interpreted and misinterpreted by anyone who has an opinion. I didn't know family Edwards, except through the media, but I have an opinion like many others.

People with cancer, or any catastrophic illness must do its utmost to strengthen their immune system. Here are recommendations on the emotional plane to assist in this process:

Surround yourself peopleEliminate support as much stress as possibleRelease and release the past

The psychological healing work is generally carried out in private. Elizabeth Edwards do not have this opportunity. Some was by choice. She said 'yes' to talk shows, and she wrote books. It was not one who has chosen a case and father of a child.

I can't begin to imagine the emotional devastation, that she felt when it was confirmed that not only had her husband was lying on the case, it has led to a child. In view of the mind and body psychology should also ravaged her immune system. At the time she struggled to stay strong for her children and her husband, he was denied her in the arms of another woman.

Of therapist point of view, he did not deny his wife as he expects this way. He tried to find comfort. One could say that it was a little man, what could not cope with illness of his wife in a healthy and adult manner.

Elizabeth Edwards must have been a woman of great strength. She struggled anger, fear, despair and rage. Oprah she said that she wanted to forgive her husband. I don't know if she has done that before his passing. Reports say that he was there y to his bedside, with their children and brothers and sisters, when she passed this life to another.

None of us know how we will handle crisis until we are in the midst of them. Elizabeth Edwards had to cope with losing her life as she knew that it. She had to leave his mother children face. Her husband had to cope with the loss of his wife. Afraid of losing his and his inability to be strong for her resulted in his losing his much earlier that needed to be.

If William Shakespeare had written a tragedy on this family, it could be studied at universities. The fatal flaw of the two would have produced books analyzing this tragedy. Instead of fiction, there is a family filled with the pain of losing a mother and wife. He is a man who is filled with its own shame and regret that he could not be the man that he wanted to be... and then, there are children who have to fight with the loss of their mother and the image of the father that they thought they knew.


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